Soon not even a Secret Cherry the best sex toy shop in Malaysia can make you come to the end any longer. You try to resort to your favorite porn, but lately you don’t feel aroused. Instead you either feel nothing or you feel genuinely disgusted or a headache. You might even feel bored.
Pornography is humanity’s main aide of getting their own rocks off, or with a help of partners that agree to let it play in the background and make their lover come while they watch or listen. Still, some people eventually no longer see porn as an arousing subject.
That includes me. I can’t even find it arousing in the first place, and I never really wank myself to actual porn. Despite familiarity with the scenes of various sorts of erotica, if someone gives me no choice but straight up porn, I’d turn it away. Or shove the material down their throat if they are stubborn.
Now what makes porn a total turn off to me?
Dehumanizing
Porn itself is never an innocent subject. When you feel that post nut clarity, it is not something you could really nudge off easily. In fact, the more you watch, the more you realize how dehumanizing it can be.
Both men and women in this video look and sound like they have nothing better to do but sex. Whatever aspirations, dreams or history are completely thrown out of the window by the visual assault of a penis pistoning in and out of a hole.
At least in my case, it was worse when I heard stories of many porn actresses getting into this kind of work because they have no other choice. It varies from running from a broken home, having to raise some family they didn’t intend to spawn, or just for the money.
It made me upset and seeing them in the act while thinking as a genuine and breathing human being with emotions and sentience is not the list bit arousing. I frowned and took my leave, feeling miserable that another one of us would be used as nothing but mere pleasure tubes.
The possibility of them not being consensual to their acts is also another nudge for me to jump off the cliff and never climb back up, because screw this land.
Boring and artificial
Watching mere human flesh humping here and there is so boring. Watching a lot of the porn actresses also made me reel at how unattractive they can be despite the makeup and so on. They are not ugly, but they look so artificial that if you somehow manage to make a life sized android out of them in some other universe, it wouldn’t look any different.
The repetitive motions and seeing no variety in these acts is either a yawnfest or a pathetic sight to me. Now not every porn is boring. If you can actually put the effort into finding one that fits your kinks and actually spice you up, congratulations.
Still, it doesn’t change the fact that a lot of porn always boils down to the same climax, pun intended. Even if the characters or premise may actually be unique enough to even surprise you, if the framework remains just the same as the other masses, it is a turn off because you are already too familiar with it by this point. It is always the same.
As a result you will suffer a burnout and nothing else will arouse you.